You Communicate Like a Woman |
You empathize, talk things out, and express your emotions freely. You're a good listener, and you're non-judgmental with your advice. Communication is how you connect with people. You're always up for a long talk, no matter how difficult the subject matter is. |
Friday, 28 September 2007
How Do i Communicate
Wednesday, 26 September 2007
Just plain tired
aku penat la... hari hari pun nak keje je.. pergi pagi balik malam.. mcm tu la 7 hari seminggu.. since bulan 6 ..aku nk relak kejap pun x boleh.. hmm x pe la.. x baik mengeluh.. kang x de keje kang busan pulak.. cam bebudak lain yg x join my 2nd project ni.. aku nye 2nd project ni hm much much better than my 1st.. in a sense of management la.. tipu la kalo kata perfect.. ada la benda x best jugak.. tp aku still blh tolerate.. memane pegi mesti ada sorang yg slack n x best.. hmm projek hpu2 ni pn ada jgk laa. tp since dia junior aku so aku leh la tibai lagi.. hahaha.. ade ke patut keje dia aku yg kena buat.. kunun sibuk ngn intools.. berborak ngn pm baru tu nk dkt sejam yg kt ni terhegeh2 la nk buat keje dia.. isk sakit la ati cam ni. .lead aku plak baik sgt.. asek nak bela dia.. dia tu pandai kipas.. nyampah la aku..
tp aku x kesah la.. janji ada je benda aku rs x betul aku akn sound direct je.. kalo makin teruk mamat tu aku akn ckp ngn lead aku.. aku nk tgk apa dia nk buat..
ah biar la..small matter jek.. janji gaji aku masuk.. haha
hmm dah nk raya dah ni.. tp aku asek keje aje..arghh.. penat laa.. i need a vacation.. oh my...hehe...
kita berhak menentukan kita bahagia atau tidak.. therefore i decided to be happy.. yeah !!
tp aku x kesah la.. janji ada je benda aku rs x betul aku akn sound direct je.. kalo makin teruk mamat tu aku akn ckp ngn lead aku.. aku nk tgk apa dia nk buat..
ah biar la..small matter jek.. janji gaji aku masuk.. haha
hmm dah nk raya dah ni.. tp aku asek keje aje..arghh.. penat laa.. i need a vacation.. oh my...hehe...
kita berhak menentukan kita bahagia atau tidak.. therefore i decided to be happy.. yeah !!
Sunday, 16 September 2007
Are You An Insecure Lady ??
You Are Confident and Secure |
You are practically immune to insecurity and self doubt. You're comfortable with who you are, and if someone doesn't like you - that's not your problem. Some people think you're too confident, but that's just their insecurities shining through. Your confidence carries you through your worst moments, because you know you'll always come out fine. |
Jawab jek..
1. the last movie you watched?
ratatouille
2. the last tv show you watched?
spongebob :)
3. the last song you heard?
love story - katharine mcphee
4. the last thing you bought?
halia .. mau masak maa..
5.the last place you went to?
sunway resort & spa
6. the last food you ate?
sahur.. nasi+sardin+ikan masin
7. the last thing you heard from your parents?
my mom showing her photo with my bro..
8. the last thing you said to your parents?
hmm.. my dad- ayah need money.. hehe
my mom - x de buat pe.. buat 8 je smlm..
9. the last thing you said to one ofyour friends?
to ida - wah kayala kau nanti... boleh ke sana ke mari...
10. the last book you read?
Harry Potter & the Deathyly Hallows.. (tu pun x abis abis lagi)
Who was:
1. the last person you called?
my sis
2. the last person who called you?
ida
3. the last person you texted?
my bro
4. the last person who texted you?
my bro
5. the last person who said good nightlast nyt?
ida
6. the last person who said i love you?
do we have to say it verbally ??!!
7. the last person you gave a testimonial?
lisa
8. the last person who sent you a msg infriendster
manjit
9. the last person you hugged?
i don't hug much this days..
10. the last person you saw on tv?
spongebob lerr
1 Do you believe that love is forever?
it's up to us to decide..
2 Do you get hurt by people easily?
tak jugak..
3 Do you believe that all people are generally good at heart?
maybe
4 Can you be anyone you want to be?
i want to be myself that's for sure
5 Do mean people make you sad?
yesss
6 Does ice cream make you happy?
sometimes
7.Do you sing in the shower?
sokmo
8 When it rains, do you like to splashin thepuddles?
no
9 If you see a cute guy/girl walk downthe street, do you smile and tellhim/her that he/she is cute?
takde maknenyerrr
10 Do you notice when people have beautiful eyes?
it is something we shud be aware of.. hehe eye contact maa
12 Is it cute when old people areholding hands?
best gilleerr
13 Are you a happy person?
mestilaa... (watever that means)
14 Do you tend not to worry even when you know something bad is about to happen?
definitely wud worry
15 Is it okay to cut off barbie's hair?
i don't play barbies
16 Have you ever laughed so hard that yourstomach hurt?
yess recently -- the darth vader thingg... haha
18 Are you slightly lazy?
at certain things yess ..
19 Do you like to drive with the windowsdown?
sometimes.. but most of the time no..
ratatouille
2. the last tv show you watched?
spongebob :)
3. the last song you heard?
love story - katharine mcphee
4. the last thing you bought?
halia .. mau masak maa..
5.the last place you went to?
sunway resort & spa
6. the last food you ate?
sahur.. nasi+sardin+ikan masin
7. the last thing you heard from your parents?
my mom showing her photo with my bro..
8. the last thing you said to your parents?
hmm.. my dad- ayah need money.. hehe
my mom - x de buat pe.. buat 8 je smlm..
9. the last thing you said to one ofyour friends?
to ida - wah kayala kau nanti... boleh ke sana ke mari...
10. the last book you read?
Harry Potter & the Deathyly Hallows.. (tu pun x abis abis lagi)
Who was:
1. the last person you called?
my sis
2. the last person who called you?
ida
3. the last person you texted?
my bro
4. the last person who texted you?
my bro
5. the last person who said good nightlast nyt?
ida
6. the last person who said i love you?
do we have to say it verbally ??!!
7. the last person you gave a testimonial?
lisa
8. the last person who sent you a msg infriendster
manjit
9. the last person you hugged?
i don't hug much this days..
10. the last person you saw on tv?
spongebob lerr
1 Do you believe that love is forever?
it's up to us to decide..
2 Do you get hurt by people easily?
tak jugak..
3 Do you believe that all people are generally good at heart?
maybe
4 Can you be anyone you want to be?
i want to be myself that's for sure
5 Do mean people make you sad?
yesss
6 Does ice cream make you happy?
sometimes
7.Do you sing in the shower?
sokmo
8 When it rains, do you like to splashin thepuddles?
no
9 If you see a cute guy/girl walk downthe street, do you smile and tellhim/her that he/she is cute?
takde maknenyerrr
10 Do you notice when people have beautiful eyes?
it is something we shud be aware of.. hehe eye contact maa
12 Is it cute when old people areholding hands?
best gilleerr
13 Are you a happy person?
mestilaa... (watever that means)
14 Do you tend not to worry even when you know something bad is about to happen?
definitely wud worry
15 Is it okay to cut off barbie's hair?
i don't play barbies
16 Have you ever laughed so hard that yourstomach hurt?
yess recently -- the darth vader thingg... haha
18 Are you slightly lazy?
at certain things yess ..
19 Do you like to drive with the windowsdown?
sometimes.. but most of the time no..
Saturday, 15 September 2007
Girl or Woman
Not a Girl, Not Yet a Woman |
Inside you've got the passion and ideals of a teenager And your intensity for life is what attracts most of the men you date You also like to party - and quite often you're the life of the party You've brought the best of your younger years with you... at least most of the time. |
Career
Selamat Menyambut Ramadhan ! ahlan wasahlan ramadhan..
hari ni da hari ke 3 berpuasa.. kejap aje rasa.. alhamdulillah setakat ni aku x miss lagi terawih kt masjid sunway tu.. hopefully sampai ke akhirnye la.. maklumla .. ada hajat besar di hati.. time ni la nk panjatkan doa pepanjang.. bukan la time lain x berdoa.. tp ye la ramadhan kan.. afdal la sikit.. hehe.. insyaallah..
smlm lepak ngn kj ngn anim kt bangsar.. best. da lama aku x jumpa derang.. last sekali time july kot.. masa kt kenny rogers.. bila da bertemu tu masing2 bertukar-tukar cerita... berkongsi citer pengalaman kerja masing2.. 1st aku tgk anim aku da tahu.. stress dia ni.. hehe.. tgk muka seposen aje.. makin kurus aku nengoknye.. dia pun menceritakan situasi kt opis dia.. politik.. sape pandai bodek boss dpt la naik.. x pandai bodek.. sndiri tanggung la.. hmmm.. aku rs kt memane sama je.. politik tu for sure ada.. kt tmpt aku ni pun politik mmg kuat.. suka x suka terpaksa jgk sebab nk hidup.. kalo x de politik kang boring plak. xde benda nk ngutuk... hahaha...
bg aku politik tu pelengkap elemn hidup manusia ni.. bergantung pd nasib la samada politik tu dpt memberi manfaat pd kita atau tidak.. if nasib baik, dpt la kt merasa... tp bg aku .. x efek pun idop aku sgt..janji gaji aku masuk.. lantakla derang nk buat ape.. bg la jawatan ape pun kt kroni derang.. antar la ceruk mana pun kt dunia ni.. kalo da x reti buat keje tu, x reti jgk laa.. aku ckp ni coz kt tmpt aku ni. dak baru trs dpt permanent.. pastu dpt g singapore plak tu... buat proses.. hmm yg sorang tu da selamat kn antar balik coz x tahu pape.. kn mrh ktsingapore.. haha.. lantak p la.
so kt sini, aku rs sebenarnye bergantung pd kite jgk nk tentukan kt ni bahagia ke x.. td pagi aku kn lecture ngn pm aku yg sgt kronisme ni.. memula tu bengang jgk la aku.. dia ckp ngn aku psl responsibility engineer.. mcm la aku ni x buat langsung keje.. then dia ada gtau a few configuration yg aku x buat. hm mmg la aku x buat. sbb aku mmg x tau langsung.. senior aku pun x pnh sebut pun.. mcm la aku da keje 10 tahun. so aku ckp la aku mmg x tahu.. bila da abeh tu.. aku try pk positif je la.. aku blh la terima apa pm aku tu cakap...
actually management side, kalo anak buah tu x reti buat keje. kalo disebabkan x bg training yg cukup, mmg la salah pm. alex dr singapore sndiri ckp kt aku cm tu. nasib la ko x antar aku g training suka ati aku la nk wat cane.. haha..tp mmg betul pun.. keje aku skrg ni bkn nye blh belajar kt internet.. internal aje tahu.. sah2lah produk company sndiri. so org company ni aje la yg tahu.. bangang x bangang pm aku ni. pastu kt aku ni mcm x tau nk tny kt sape. eh eh.. sesuka ati je.. selama ni byk senior aku dah susahkan suh ajar aku.
lg satu aku x baper nk berkenan tu.. why now.. da abeh fat br la terhegeh hegeh dtg cek keje engineer kau.. bangang x bangang mamat shaggy ni....
maka kesimpulan yg aku nk sampai kan kt sini ialah..
kita memang tak dapat nak puaskan ati semua orang.. tapi biar la kite puaskan hati kita sendiri.. setidak-tidaknye.
so kengkawan. kalo stress sgt kt tmpt keje tu, bwk la bersabar. dan sentiasalah kite berfikir positif. jangan sampai nilai etika kerja tergadai semata-mata nk puaskan hati orang atas.. that is so not me.. kebenaran itu penting. kite tak boleh tipu diri kita sendiri.. kalau kita nk blah dr sesuatu tempat tu biar lah kite pergi dalam keadaan kita dah cuba buat sesuatu untuk overcome masalah itu. keluarlah dengan bermaruah.. all the best untuk sesapa yg baca blog ni..
hari ni da hari ke 3 berpuasa.. kejap aje rasa.. alhamdulillah setakat ni aku x miss lagi terawih kt masjid sunway tu.. hopefully sampai ke akhirnye la.. maklumla .. ada hajat besar di hati.. time ni la nk panjatkan doa pepanjang.. bukan la time lain x berdoa.. tp ye la ramadhan kan.. afdal la sikit.. hehe.. insyaallah..
smlm lepak ngn kj ngn anim kt bangsar.. best. da lama aku x jumpa derang.. last sekali time july kot.. masa kt kenny rogers.. bila da bertemu tu masing2 bertukar-tukar cerita... berkongsi citer pengalaman kerja masing2.. 1st aku tgk anim aku da tahu.. stress dia ni.. hehe.. tgk muka seposen aje.. makin kurus aku nengoknye.. dia pun menceritakan situasi kt opis dia.. politik.. sape pandai bodek boss dpt la naik.. x pandai bodek.. sndiri tanggung la.. hmmm.. aku rs kt memane sama je.. politik tu for sure ada.. kt tmpt aku ni pun politik mmg kuat.. suka x suka terpaksa jgk sebab nk hidup.. kalo x de politik kang boring plak. xde benda nk ngutuk... hahaha...
bg aku politik tu pelengkap elemn hidup manusia ni.. bergantung pd nasib la samada politik tu dpt memberi manfaat pd kita atau tidak.. if nasib baik, dpt la kt merasa... tp bg aku .. x efek pun idop aku sgt..janji gaji aku masuk.. lantakla derang nk buat ape.. bg la jawatan ape pun kt kroni derang.. antar la ceruk mana pun kt dunia ni.. kalo da x reti buat keje tu, x reti jgk laa.. aku ckp ni coz kt tmpt aku ni. dak baru trs dpt permanent.. pastu dpt g singapore plak tu... buat proses.. hmm yg sorang tu da selamat kn antar balik coz x tahu pape.. kn mrh ktsingapore.. haha.. lantak p la.
so kt sini, aku rs sebenarnye bergantung pd kite jgk nk tentukan kt ni bahagia ke x.. td pagi aku kn lecture ngn pm aku yg sgt kronisme ni.. memula tu bengang jgk la aku.. dia ckp ngn aku psl responsibility engineer.. mcm la aku ni x buat langsung keje.. then dia ada gtau a few configuration yg aku x buat. hm mmg la aku x buat. sbb aku mmg x tau langsung.. senior aku pun x pnh sebut pun.. mcm la aku da keje 10 tahun. so aku ckp la aku mmg x tahu.. bila da abeh tu.. aku try pk positif je la.. aku blh la terima apa pm aku tu cakap...
actually management side, kalo anak buah tu x reti buat keje. kalo disebabkan x bg training yg cukup, mmg la salah pm. alex dr singapore sndiri ckp kt aku cm tu. nasib la ko x antar aku g training suka ati aku la nk wat cane.. haha..tp mmg betul pun.. keje aku skrg ni bkn nye blh belajar kt internet.. internal aje tahu.. sah2lah produk company sndiri. so org company ni aje la yg tahu.. bangang x bangang pm aku ni. pastu kt aku ni mcm x tau nk tny kt sape. eh eh.. sesuka ati je.. selama ni byk senior aku dah susahkan suh ajar aku.
lg satu aku x baper nk berkenan tu.. why now.. da abeh fat br la terhegeh hegeh dtg cek keje engineer kau.. bangang x bangang mamat shaggy ni....
maka kesimpulan yg aku nk sampai kan kt sini ialah..
kita memang tak dapat nak puaskan ati semua orang.. tapi biar la kite puaskan hati kita sendiri.. setidak-tidaknye.
so kengkawan. kalo stress sgt kt tmpt keje tu, bwk la bersabar. dan sentiasalah kite berfikir positif. jangan sampai nilai etika kerja tergadai semata-mata nk puaskan hati orang atas.. that is so not me.. kebenaran itu penting. kite tak boleh tipu diri kita sendiri.. kalau kita nk blah dr sesuatu tempat tu biar lah kite pergi dalam keadaan kita dah cuba buat sesuatu untuk overcome masalah itu. keluarlah dengan bermaruah.. all the best untuk sesapa yg baca blog ni..
Sunday, 9 September 2007
entah lerr..
Hai mcblog.. today's sunday.. n all i'm getting ready for is to go to work.. it's now towards the end of the project.. not much to be done.. juz final touch up.. i feel a lot more comfortable doing tje job now.. as i'm .. well u can say am used to the job.. i feel a lot more confident after alex's visit. even only for a few days, i learnt a lot from him..
this month i'm thinking of doing as much OT as i want. lg 3 bulan nk abis kontrak.
~went out for breakfast~850am
hai.. i'm back.. i'm in the office.. got here 1130 am. i did HSE... sangat menenangkan.. sensorang kt bwh ni.. until suddenly.. one colleague approached me.. in a so not very nice way.. he's like that.. ever since i know him.. o my.. i got distracted n went out for lunch.. wandering at section 14..
hari ni entah la kenapa.. aku x nak balik umah.. this morning she told me that she want out.. both of them.. (only myself understands it, watever that is) . she's waiting for me.. to discuss.. i said ok. but on 2nd thought, wat is there to discuss?
hmm.. that is the main reason i'm just sitting here in the office.. alone..
feel like calling someone. just for the sake of company.. thinking again.. just had a long breakfast with ida this morning.. so, maybe i shudn't kacau her..
haiiiiiiiii.... entah laa..
anyway, happiness is for us to decide.. and i decide to be happy.. at once.. LOL
this month i'm thinking of doing as much OT as i want. lg 3 bulan nk abis kontrak.
~went out for breakfast~850am
hai.. i'm back.. i'm in the office.. got here 1130 am. i did HSE... sangat menenangkan.. sensorang kt bwh ni.. until suddenly.. one colleague approached me.. in a so not very nice way.. he's like that.. ever since i know him.. o my.. i got distracted n went out for lunch.. wandering at section 14..
hari ni entah la kenapa.. aku x nak balik umah.. this morning she told me that she want out.. both of them.. (only myself understands it, watever that is) . she's waiting for me.. to discuss.. i said ok. but on 2nd thought, wat is there to discuss?
hmm.. that is the main reason i'm just sitting here in the office.. alone..
feel like calling someone. just for the sake of company.. thinking again.. just had a long breakfast with ida this morning.. so, maybe i shudn't kacau her..
haiiiiiiiii.... entah laa..
anyway, happiness is for us to decide.. and i decide to be happy.. at once.. LOL
How Dysfunctional is your family
Your Family Is 44% Dysfunctional |
Your family definitely has some problems, but probably nothing that can't be overcome. You don't have the greatest past with your family, and bad feelings may arise when everyone's together. It may take some individual or group therapy to work everything out. And that means your family has to admit there's a problem. If your family isn't ready to change, you may need to give them some distance for a while. |
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